Happiness

 the following writings were copied from my old blog.

 

 

Happiness ...

 

I just read an article by Rima Fauzì I downloaded from www.superkoran.info it's about which is the most important to gain happiness:

 

* love

* sex

* money

 

People have their own choice, that's for sure. However if the background is in Indonesia--not to mention in my hometown, Semarang--people would not likely pick up 'sex' as the most important priority. However if Samantha Jones from Sex and the City made a pick, you all can guess, she would absolutely pick 'sex' without any reservation. ;-)

 

Do you think which comes first, love or sex? Will you fall in love with someone who successfully give you heavenly cums? Or do you believe on the way around, love will make your sex incredible?

 

Love and money, which comes first? Will you easily fall for someone who showers you with expensive gifts? Or will you just make use of someone rich who is head over heels in love with you, so you will just enjoy his/her money without bothering yourself whether you love him/her or not.

 

Money and sex, which will you pick?

 

I cannot decide yet. I don't think it matters though, at least at this moment. :-D

 

PT56 21.29 041008

 

Happiness 2

 

I remember in one episode of Sex and the City where Carrie mentioned three things New Yorkers want to achieve, to be considered happy. They are:

 

# an established job

# a dwelling place

# a plus one (can be a spouse, a boyfriend\girlfriend, or a kid)

 

Let's compare it to what Ayu Utami wrote in Si Parasit Lajang. Indonesian people also have three criteria:

 

# an established job

# being married

# having kids

 

When someone doesn't have one of those three things, he or she will feel not complete, or even worse, will feel miserable.

 

Why should we need other people's recognition, or using others' parameter only to say whether we are happy or not.

 

I'd rather use my own parameter :-D Other people have nothing to do with it.

 

PT56 21.51 041008